When I was younger, my grandma was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. As a child, I didn’t fully know what was going on; I just assumed that my grandma lost all her memories.
My mom and dad had a very hard time trying to communicate with her. My mom was often very frustrated and upset when she tried talking with my grandma. Now that I have gotten older and understand the disease better, I wanted to share my knowledge with those who might be struggling to understand and help someone living with Alzheimer’s.
According to the Alzheimer’s Association, there are 5.2 million people with Alzheimer’s disease in the United States alone. In fact, 1 in 8 people over 65 years of age has the disease. Additionally, every 71 seconds another person develops it!
Alzheimer’s affects the brain and makes it hard to recall words and thoughts. People affected by this disease can also lose their train of thought, seem confused, wander away, or lose their temper which all can make it difficult to care for them.
Here are a few tips to help you cope:
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Try to get the person with Alzheimer’s into a daily routine and help him or her stick to it.
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To prevent them from feeling overwhelmed, try to limit time spent around loud noises or crowds.
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A great idea I saw on CNN.com was to post pictures outside rooms in the house that feature your loved one in that same room
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If he or she walks around a lot, you may want to secure locks and latches leading outdoors. Make sure the smoke alarms work and place lighters or matches out of eye sight.
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Get to know the neighbors. Often they will be more than happen to help keep an eye out for your loved one when you cannot be present.
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During the holidays opt for quieter, more low-key parties and simpler decorations.
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If your loved one is at a nursing home or assisted living residence, consider bringing the party or holiday to them – but be sure to check with staff prior to holding the event.
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Consider limiting choices on such things as clothing, food or social plans. By narrowing down options it may help ease frustration.
Most importantly, remember to not take things personally. Alzheimer’s is a disease and your loved one is not trying to antagonize you.
Also, remember to take care of yourself. You will not be able to provide proper care if you aren’t healthy. When challenges become too overwhelming, pause, take a deep breath and talk with someone.
Have you or any one you know taken care of someone with Alzheimer’s or dementia? How were you able to cope with it?
Sources: mayoclinic.com
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